Like the moon shining bright Up high with all its grace,I can only show you at night And hide half of my face.

The mindset of loss of a loved one is to understand that the loss will never be undone. You must live with it, like it or not. But, to live well, you must turn that loss into something positive. That way, you can become the best version of yourself; scarred, flawed and unstoppable.

Remarkable, really, the lengths to which humans will go to fit things into their version of reality.