{"quotes":[{"text":"What further helps to reveal reality is when our personal thinking ceases to take reality for granted.","author":"Criss Jami","tags":["deception","delusion","fantasy","personal","reality","reveal","self-deception","take-for-granted","thinking","truth"],"id":6337,"author_id":"Criss+Jami"},{"text":"Stop lying to yourself. When we deny our own truth, we deny our own potential.","author":"Steve Maraboli","tags":["deny","happiness","honesty","lying","potential","self-deception","success","truth"],"id":10985,"author_id":"Steve+Maraboli"},{"text":"Any casual observer can tell at a glance I'm not the person I think I am.","author":"Marty Rubin","tags":["identity","self-deception","the-self"],"id":13738,"author_id":"Marty+Rubin"},{"text":"You only reveal your game plan when you know you're winning, or losing.","author":"Ahmed Mostafa","tags":["denial","game-plan","losing","lost-love","reveal","revealed","revelation","self-deception","winning"],"id":15543,"author_id":"Ahmed+Mostafa"},{"text":"Human nature is full of riddles and contradictions; its very complexity engenders art—and by art I mean the search for something more than simple linear formulations, flat solutions, oversimplified explanations. One of these riddles is: how is it that people who have been crushed by the sheer weight of slavery and cast to the bottom of the pit can nevertheless find strength to rise up and free themselves, first in spirit and then in body; while those who soar unhampered over the peaks of freedom suddenly appear to lose the taste for freedom, lose the will to defend it, and, hopelessly confused and lost, almost begin to crave slavery. Or again: why is it that societies which have been benumbed for half a century by lies they have been forced to swallow find within themselves a certain lucidity of heart and soul which enables them to see things in their true perspective and to perceive the real meaning of events; whereas societies with access to every kind of information suddenly plunge into lethargy, into a kind of mass blindness, a kind of voluntary self deception.","author":"Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn","tags":["freedom","human-nature","self-deception","slavery"],"id":20862,"author_id":"Aleksandr+Solzhenitsyn"},{"text":"Language is something you inherit, it's never just you doing the talking, which helps when you're pretending.","author":"Cees Nooteboom","tags":["fantastical-thinking","fantasy","language","night-thoughts","self-deception","self-knowledge","words"],"id":21352,"author_id":"Cees+Nooteboom"},{"text":"Perhaps the strangest thing about this illusion of control is not that it happens but that it seems to confer many of the psychological benefits of genuine control. In fact, the one group of people who seem generally immune to this illusion are the clinically depressed, who tend to estimate accurately the degree to which they can control events in most situation.","author":"Daniel M. Gilbert","tags":["depression","psychology","self-deception"],"id":21615,"author_id":"Daniel+M.+Gilbert"},{"text":"And the German society of eighty million people had been shielded against reality and factuality by exactly the same means, the same self-deception, lies, and stupidity that had now become engrained in Eichmann's mentality. These lies changed from year to year, and they frequently contradicted each other; moreover, they were not necessarily the same for the various branches of the Party hierarchy or the people at large. But the practice of self-deception had become so common, almost a moral prerequisite for survival, that even now, eighteen years after the collapse of the Nazi regime, when most of the specific content of its lies has been forgotten, it is sometimes difficult not to believe that mendacity has become an integral part of the German national character.","author":"Hannah Arendt","tags":["germany","lies","mendacity","nazism","self-deception","stupidity"],"id":32609,"author_id":"Hannah+Arendt"},{"text":"Truthful hyperbole’ is a contradiction in terms. It’s a way of saying, ‘It’s a lie, but who cares?’.","author":"Tony Schwartz","tags":["alternative-facts","compulsive-liar","contradiction","contradictory","deceit","donald-trump","donald-trump","grandiosity","hyperbole","liar","lies","lying","lying-to-others","pathological-liar","self-aggrandizing","self-deception","truthful-hyperbole"],"id":34486,"author_id":"Tony+Schwartz"},{"text":"Of all the liars in the world, sometimes the worst are our own fears.","author":"Rudyard Kipling","tags":["fear","liars","self-deception"],"id":46888,"author_id":"Rudyard+Kipling"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":100,"pages":10,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}