{"quotes":[{"text":"You will never choose love greater than what you believe you deserve and what other insecure people tell your lack of self esteem to have faith in.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["anxiety","awareness","brainwashed","confidence","controlling-partner","empowering","false-angels","fear","gutter","have-confidence","jealous-women","jealousy","relationship-101","religious-guilt","rise-up","self-appreciation","self-confidence","self-esteen","self-gratitude","self-love","self-respect","women","worth"],"id":8787,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"It is better to stay single and wait for the one that makes sense then to marry someone that makes absolutely no sense. The moment you settle is when the one person that makes all the sense in the world shows up and Satan sits back and enjoys your spiritual meltdown.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["accountability","anger","arranged-marriages","bitter","choices","civil-union","confidence","confused","dating","devil","divorce","domestic-partnership","fear","frustrated","frustration","guilted","hindsight","hurt","insecurity","lack-of-confidence","lessons","loss-of-testimony","meltdowns","misery","mistakes","pain","practical","regret","relationships","religious-guilt","satan","self-esteem","self-loathing","sensitivity","settling","shame","teenagers","temptation","true-love","youth"],"id":275480,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":2,"pages":1}}