{"quotes":[{"text":"Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["bad-karma","bargain-basement-prices","betrayers","cheaters","competition","dating","dating-advice","delusion","desperate","dignity","dogs","ego","empowerment","examples","exiting","eye-openers","false-confidence","false-happiness","forgetting","games","lack-of-value","lesson-in-life","letting-go","losing","love","low-self-esteem","marriages","men","mistakes","moving-on","observations","on-sale","pathetic","players","positive-women","regaining-control","relationships","revelation","sad","self-respect","self-worth","staying-positive","teenagers","the-good-life","truth","value","wasted-time","women"],"id":52460,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Ironically, the only way to see clearly is to stand at a distance. You might be focused, but that doesn't mean you are seeing correctly. Sometimes, you have you to grab the camera from the idiot taking all the shots in your life because they don't realize the lens is dirty.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["camera","change","choices","clarity","decisions","focus","getting-away","humor","investigating","misquided","off-track","paying-attention","perspective","photography","regaining-control","research-and-development","retreats","seeing-the-real-picture","solitude","stay-focused","vacation-alone"],"id":185936,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":2,"pages":1}}