{"quotes":[{"text":"The mass State has no intention of promoting mutual understanding and the relationship of man to man; it strives, rather, for atomization, for the psychic isolation of the individual.","author":"C.G. Jung","tags":["conscious","individuality","mutuality","politics","relationship","state","statism","understanding"],"id":26561,"author_id":"C.G.+Jung"},{"text":"All this is simply to say that all life is interrelated. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality; tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. As long as there is poverty in this world, no man can be totally rich even if he has a billion dollars. As long as diseases are rampant and millions of people cannot expect to live more than twenty or thirty years, no man can be totally healthy, even if he just got a clean bill of health from the finest clinic in America. Strangely enough, I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. You can never be what you ought to be until I am what I ought to be.","author":"Martin Luther King Jr.","tags":["destiny","health","interrelations","life","mutuality","poverty","sickness","wealth"],"id":34690,"author_id":"Martin+Luther+King+Jr."},{"text":"The third element of love is mudita, joy. True love always brings joy to ourselves and to the one we love. If our love does not bring joy to both of us, it is not true love.","author":"Thich Nhat Hanh","tags":["joy","love","mutuality"],"id":48152,"author_id":"Thich+Nhat+Hanh"},{"text":"Your silence exists as does my self gathering. But so does the almost absolute silence of the world's dawning. In such suspension, before every utterance on earth, there is a cloud, an almost immobile air. The plants already breathe, while we still ask ourselves how to speak to each other, without taking breath away from them.","author":"Luce Irigaray","tags":["being","flowers","irigaray","love","luce-irigaray","mutuality","silence","to-be-two"],"id":60655,"author_id":"Luce+Irigaray"},{"text":"It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.","author":"John Joseph Powell","tags":["affection","alone","beauty","camaraderie","caring","caring-for-others","closeness","companionship","compassion","connectedness","connection","disconnection","empathy","estrangement","fellowship","friendship","friendship","hug","hugs","intimacy","isolation","kindness","kindred-spirits","loneliness","love","love-at-first-sight","love","lovers","loving","loving-someone","mirror","mutuality","partnership","reciprocal","reciprocity","reflected-in-you","relationship","relationship","relationships","romance","self-belief","self-esteem","self-hatred","self-realization","self-worth","self-worthiness","soul-mate","soulmates","togetherness","touch","twin-flames"],"id":67576,"author_id":"John+Joseph+Powell"},{"text":"It's not the number of contacts you cultivate but the diversity and depth of connections that leverage your opportunity to use best talents more often to accomplish more.","author":"Kare Anderson","tags":["fame","friendship","mutuality","opportunity-knocks","respect"],"id":71244,"author_id":"Kare+Anderson"},{"text":"Friendship- my definition- is built on two things. Respect and trust. Both elements have to be there. And it has to be mutual. You can have respect for someone, but if you don't have trust, the friendship will crumble.","author":"Stieg Larsson","tags":["friendship","incredibly-true","mutuality","reciprocity","respect","trust"],"id":116377,"author_id":"Stieg+Larsson"},{"text":"The sun still lives his silent vows to the moon, by bowing to kiss her feet whenever she walks in the room.","author":"Curtis Tyrone Jones","tags":["adoration","attraction","dating","divorce","falling-in-love","feet","humility","husband","infatuation","kiss","kissing","life","light","love","love-poem","marriage","moon","mutuality","partners","poem","poetry","relationship-goals","relationships","separation","service","sun","sunrise","sunset","vows","wife","wisdom"],"id":182299,"author_id":"Curtis+Tyrone+Jones"},{"text":"Should you operate upon your clients as objects, you risk reducing them to less than human. Following the culture of appropriation and mastery your clients become a kind of extension of yourself, of your ego. In the appropriation and objectification mode, your clients’ well-being and success in treatment reflect well upon you. You “did” something to them, you made them well. You acted upon them and can take the credit for successful therapy or treatment. Conversely, if your clients flounder or regress, that reflects poorly on you. On this side of things the culture of appropriation and mastery says that you are not doing enough. You are not exerting enough influence, technique or therapeutic force. What anxiety this can breed for some clinicians! DBT offers a framework and tools for a treatment that allows clients to retain their full humanity. Through the practice of mindfulness, you can learn to cultivate a fuller presence to the moments of your life, and even with your clients and your work with them. This presence potentiates an encounter between two irreducible human beings, meeting professionally, of course, and meeting humanly. The dialectical framework, which embraces contradictions and gives you a way of seeing that life is pregnant with creative tensions, allows for your discovery of your limits and possibilities, gives you a way of seeing the dynamic nature of reality that is anything but sitting still; shows you that your identity grows from relationship with others, including those you help, that you are an irreducible human being encountering other irreducible human beings who exert influence upon you, even as you exert your own upon them. Even without clinical contrivance.","author":"Scott E. Spradlin","tags":["appropriation","being","counseling","dbt","humanity","kindness","love","mindfulness","mutuality","presence","psychology","relationships","respect","spradlin"],"id":198703,"author_id":"Scott+E.+Spradlin"},{"text":"Independence was as far as his mind could reach. Yet I think his mind groped further, towards what he could not see, the body's obscure, inalterable dream of mutuality.","author":"Ursula K. Le Guin","tags":["independence","mutuality"],"id":210490,"author_id":"Ursula+K.+Le+Guin"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":14,"pages":2,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}