{"quotes":[{"text":"Dads. Do your faces light up when you first see your child in the morning or when you come home from work? Do you not understand that a child’s entire sense of value can revolve around what they see in your face when you first see them?","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["anger","arguing","break","child","children","dads","fathers","happiness","hurt","kindness","labeling","love","parenting","parents","praise","words","yelling"],"id":905,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"Dads. It’s time to tell our kids that we love them. Constantly. It’s time to show our kids that we love them. Constantly. It’s time to take joy in their twenty-thousand daily questions and their inability to do things as quickly as we’d like. It’s time to take joy in their quirks and their ticks. It’s time to take joy in their facial expressions and their mispronounced words. It’s time to take joy in everything that our kids are.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["anger","arguing","break","child","children","dads","fathers","happiness","hurt","kindness","labeling","love","parenting","parents","praise","words","yelling"],"id":59389,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"Human understanding more easily invents new things than new words.","author":"Alexis de Tocqueville","tags":["confusion","continuity","labeling","vocabulary","word-choice"],"id":62298,"author_id":"Alexis+de+Tocqueville"},{"text":"I am far from a perfect dad. And I always will be. But I’m a damn good dad, and my son will always feel bigger than anything life can throw at him. Why? Because I get it. I get the power a dad has in a child’s life, and in a child’s level of self-belief. I get that everything I ever do and ever say to my son will be absorbed, for good or for bad.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["anger","arguing","break","child","children","dads","fathers","happiness","hurt","kindness","labeling","love","parenting","parents","praise","words","yelling"],"id":74708,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"Do you not realize that your kids are going to make mistakes, and a lot of them? Do you not realize the damage you do when you push your son’s nose into his mishaps or make your daughter feel worthless because she bumped or spilled something? Do you have any idea how easy it is to make your child feel abject? It’s as simple as letting out the words, “why would you do that!?” or “how many times have I told you….","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["anger","arguing","break","child","children","dads","fathers","happiness","hurt","kindness","labeling","love","parenting","parents","praise","words","yelling"],"id":83935,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"Loving my son, building my son, touching my son, playing with my son, being with my son… these aren’t tasks that only super dads can perform. These are tasks that every dad should perform. Always. Without fail.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["anger","arguing","break","child","children","dads","fathers","happiness","hurt","kindness","labeling","love","parenting","parents","praise","words","yelling"],"id":131921,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"We aren't human.'Yes. We. Are.' His voice turns fierce. 'I don't give a shit what the something-somethingth council of big important farts decreed, or how the geomests classify things, or any of that. That we're not human is just the lie they tell themselves so they don't have to feel bad about how they treat us.","author":"N.K. Jemisin","tags":["alienation","caste","caste-system","classification","humanity","labeling","labels","oppression","outcast","outcasts","taxonomy"],"id":168621,"author_id":"N.K.+Jemisin"},{"text":"It sounds strange, somewhat on the line between irony and absurdity, to think that people would rather label and judge something as significant as each other but completely bypass a peanut. ... World peace is only a dream because people won't allow themselves and others around them to simply be peanuts. We won't allow the color of a man's heart to be the color of his skin, the premise of his beliefs, and his self-worth. We won't allow him to be a peanut, therefore we won't allow ourselves to come to live in harmony. (Diary 18).","author":"Erin Gruwell","tags":["harmony","judging","labeling","world-peace"],"id":168995,"author_id":"Erin+Gruwell"},{"text":"As she grew older, Maddy discovered that she had disappointed almost everyone. An awkward girl with a sullen mouth, a curtain of hair, and a tendency to slouch, she had neither Mae's sweet nature nor sweet face. Her eyes were rather beautiful, but few people ever noticed this, and it was widely believed Maddy was ugly, a troublemaker, too clever for her own good, too stubborn - or too slack - to change.Of course, folk agreed that it was not her fault she was so brown or her sister so pretty, but a smile costs nothing, as the saying goes, and if only the girl had made an effort once in a while, or even showed a little gratitude for all the help and free advice, then maybe she would have settled down.","author":"Joanne Harris","tags":["appearances","hypocrisy","labeling","prejudice","scapegoating","superiority"],"id":190795,"author_id":"Joanne+Harris"},{"text":"Dads. Do you not realize that your child needs to feel your skin on his? Do you not realize the incredible and powerful bond that skin on skin contact with your daughter will give you? Do you not understand the permanent mental connections that are made when you stroke your son’s bare back or rub your daughter’s bare tummy while you tell bedtime stories? And if any idiot says anything about that being inappropriate, you’re gonna get kicked in the face, first by me, and then by every other good dad out there. Touching your child is your duty as a father.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["anger","arguing","break","child","children","dads","fathers","happiness","hurt","kindness","labeling","love","parenting","parents","praise","touch","touching","words","yelling"],"id":191022,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":23,"pages":3,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}