{"quotes":[{"text":"I never wanted to live in that place again, but if for some reason I was forced to live there again, I would never accept the harsh judgments made against me by people whose only power to do so was that they had known me from the moment I was born.","author":"Jamaica Kincaid","tags":["familiarity","family","judgmental","womanhood"],"id":571,"author_id":"Jamaica+Kincaid"},{"text":"If becoming 'religious' has made you more judgmental, rude, harsh, a backbiter, you need to check if you are worshiping God or your ego.","author":"Moosa Rahat","tags":["backbiters","ego","judgmental","religious","rude"],"id":4861,"author_id":"Moosa+Rahat"},{"text":"The emphasis and the reason for a pure humility is to result in love for others; not always necessarily the belittlement of self. When there is pride and self-righteousness and being pretentiously too far above, generally, one has a difficult time reaching the compassionate side of love for others, the side that understands (or at least attempts to understand): 'I am aware that I am not so far from falling in the same way.' Humility seeks to understand, and sometimes even relate; and in result, the love lovingly, properly, effectively wills the removal of the destructive sins of another as from oneself.","author":"Criss Jami","tags":["caring","caring-for-others","compassion","constructive-criticism","discernment","humility","hypocrisy","judgmental","love","pride","purity","self-destruction","self-righteousness","sin"],"id":5566,"author_id":"Criss+Jami"},{"text":"Dear Girls Across the Globe,Let's stop body-shaming each other with hurtful comments about how another girl looks or doesn't look. We are all beautiful in our own unique way; so let's speak about each other with the dignity that we would want others to have when they speak about us.","author":"Miya Yamanouchi","tags":["body-shaming","bullying","feminist","girls","jealousy","judgmental","mean-girls","miya-yamamouchi","nastiness","respect","rude-comments","self-love","slut-shaming","tall-poppy-syndrome","women"],"id":10267,"author_id":"Miya+Yamanouchi"},{"text":"In an extroverted society, the difference between an introvert and an extrovert is that an introvert is often unconsciously deemed guilty until proven innocent.","author":"Criss Jami","tags":["accusation","assumption","bias","blame","extroversion","extroverts","fear","guilt","innocence","introversion","introverts","judgment","judgmental","judgmentality","people","skepticism","social-norms","society","unconscious-mind"],"id":41409,"author_id":"Criss+Jami"},{"text":"Judging others is too often escapism dressed in the garb of righteous indignation, whereby I dutifully point out in others that which I probably should be pointing out in myself.","author":"Craig D. Lounsbrough","tags":["condemn","condemnation","critical","escapism","judge","judgement","judgmental","justice","self-assessment","self-examination"],"id":42674,"author_id":"Craig+D.+Lounsbrough"},{"text":"Understanding trauma and that we each respond to it differently will help us be supportive and nonjudgmental toward each other.","author":"Stephanie S. Covington","tags":["judgmental","mental","nonjudgemental","ptsd","trauma","traumatized"],"id":47299,"author_id":"Stephanie+S.+Covington"},{"text":"Because Honestlyis it trashyto want something so badyou go for iteven if it might kill you?My opinion?It's judging that's trashy.Bad enough the world looks at usunder a (distorted) microscope.Like the good Lord says,we don't need tojudge each other.","author":"Kristin Elizabeth Clark","tags":["desire","inspirational","judging","judgment","judgmental","lgbt","want"],"id":48856,"author_id":"Kristin+Elizabeth+Clark"},{"text":"In the modern Christian attempt to take a stand as Christ did, and maybe for others, win the approval of the world, the Christian will often think that it consists of targeting and demoralizing fellow Christians and only fellow Christians. It is one thing to stand against religious hypocrisy when one sees it, but it is another to go on snorting at anything or anyone who might seem 'too Christian' to us. The irony is that by doing this we are further advocating hypocrisy and 'half-hearted Christians'.","author":"Criss Jami","tags":["apologetics","christ","christian","christianity","demoralize","envy","genuine","heart","hypocrisy","judgmental","love","modern","moral","passion","progressive","religion","scrutiny","sincere","spiritual","take-a-stand","world"],"id":68028,"author_id":"Criss+Jami"},{"text":"The thoughts that creep into our brain about other people tell us less about those people than they do about ourself...Understand that most judgments of others are an attempt to empower ourselves and give a sense of being better than the person we judge...Our primitive nature (automatic brain) helps us believe that this is necessary for protection. Following this natural tendency puts up further obstructions to the law of attraction.","author":"Charles F. Glassman","tags":["judging-people","judgmental","judgmental-people","law-of-attraction","law-of-attraction","spiritual","spirituality"],"id":73930,"author_id":"Charles+F.+Glassman"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":58,"pages":6,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}