{"quotes":[{"text":"As much as I don’t want it to be true, the reasons I don’t do something define me as a person even more so, perhaps, than the reasons I do something.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["charity","doing-the-right-thing","judging","judging-others","kindness","love","loving-others"],"id":2416,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"Be a little less obsessed with how I live my life and a little more obsessed with how you live your own.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["judging-others","judgments","obsession","pressure","pressuring-others"],"id":19774,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"I am just a guy, doing my best to be the best person I can be.And, every once in a while, I fuck up the moment I’m in.Please. Get over it. Get over yourselves. Get over this weird need to be morally superior to me and to the other people in this world.And let me be imperfect. I assure you, my imperfections drive me to improve.Let me love myself. I assure you, loving myself despite my faults will only make me a better person.Let me be my own judge. I assure you, I’ll be more fair and just than you ever will.Let me be the owner of my own intentions. I assure you, there isn’t another soul on earth who knows what my real intentions are but me.Love and acceptance despite ongoing and glaring imperfection is all I’ve ever tried to attain with this blog. For me. For you. For everyone. And I’ll never stop.","author":"Dan Pearce","tags":["fault","growth","imperfection","improvement","improving","judging-others","judgment","love","perfection","weakness"],"id":43327,"author_id":"Dan+Pearce"},{"text":"When the same lessons of life that taught them teaches you, you get a good understanding of what made them become who and what they became; you appreciate them better and you uphold the dignity of their integrity in high esteem!","author":"Ernest Agyemang Yeboah","tags":["criticism","critics","experience","founding-fathers","great-men-and-women","judging-others","trials-and-tribulations"],"id":44190,"author_id":"Ernest+Agyemang+Yeboah"},{"text":"If you spend time judging and criticizing people, you will not have time to heal from your pain or brokenness. You cannot love yourself when you judge or criticize others who are created in God's image and after His Likeness...In which you are also created. Love cannot operate from a space of pain. Love and hurt cannot reside in the same space.","author":"Kemi Sogunle","tags":["brokenness","healing","healing-from-the-past","judging-others","life","living","love","love","loving-others","loving-yourself","relationship","relationships","spirituality","true-love"],"id":46698,"author_id":"Kemi+Sogunle"},{"text":"In order to improve our life for good always remember that regardless of what anyone else says and does, we are ultimately responsible for our own actions. This is the only way to experience victory, joy, and satisfaction every day of our lives.","author":"Donald Pillai","tags":["habits","judging","judging-others","judging-ourselves","judging-people","people","persecution","pressure","relationship","relationship","relationships"],"id":49491,"author_id":"Donald+Pillai"},{"text":"Where exactly does it come from, I’d like to know, this ineradicable attitude of superiority toward the past? This stubbornly dumb, can’t-kill-it-with-an-ax conviction that we, the now, critically and categorically know better than they, the past. Is it from the mere fact that their future is known to us, that we know what happens? (Nothing good.) It’s much the way we treat small children— pedantic and permissive at the same time. And we always think of the people of the past — just as we do of children — as being naïve in everything from their clothes and hairstyles to their thoughts and feelings.","author":"Oksana Zabuzhko","tags":["history","judgement","judging-others","the-past"],"id":59210,"author_id":"Oksana+Zabuzhko"},{"text":"One of the easiest things in life is to judge others. One of the simplest things we can ever do is to tell how wrong people are. One of the most thoughtless things we can ever do is to show people their faults unconstructively. It is always so easy and common to do such things but, before you do that, find the uncommon reasons for the faulty life.Yes! Before you do that, identify how to correct a faulty life and before you do that, think of what drives and invokes the joy, slothfulness or the melancholy in people. Until you go through what people have been through, until you experience what has become a part of people, until you understand what drives the real interest of people and until you become fully aware of the real vision, aspirations, desires and the needs of others, ponder before you criticize!","author":"Ernest Agyemang Yeboah","tags":["aspirations","attitude","bad-attitude","be-in-the-shoes-of-others","criticism","easiest-things-in-life","empathy","hopes-and-dreams","judgemental-people","judging-actions","judging-by-appearance","judging-others","pessimism","ponder","psychology","reasons","reasons-why","unconstructive-criticism"],"id":59695,"author_id":"Ernest+Agyemang+Yeboah"},{"text":"All of us are interested in things outside of our stewardships, and we should be, but the most important way to do anything about them is to magnify our own stewardships. When you focus on your own responsibility, you become relatively unconcerned with other peoples stewardships...The highest form of influence is to be a model, not a critic; a light, not a judge.","author":"Stephen R. Covey","tags":["comparing","judging-others","relationships"],"id":63181,"author_id":"Stephen+R.+Covey"},{"text":"One mistake is all they see.","author":"Joyce Rachelle","tags":["judging","judging-others","judging-you","judgmental-people","making-mistakes","mistakes","psychology","self-image"],"id":64236,"author_id":"Joyce+Rachelle"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":62,"pages":7,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}