{"quotes":[{"text":"One of the easiest things in life is to judge others. One of the simplest things we can ever do is to tell how wrong people are. One of the most thoughtless things we can ever do is to show people their faults unconstructively. It is always so easy and common to do such things but, before you do that, find the uncommon reasons for the faulty life.Yes! Before you do that, identify how to correct a faulty life and before you do that, think of what drives and invokes the joy, slothfulness or the melancholy in people. Until you go through what people have been through, until you experience what has become a part of people, until you understand what drives the real interest of people and until you become fully aware of the real vision, aspirations, desires and the needs of others, ponder before you criticize!","author":"Ernest Agyemang Yeboah","tags":["aspirations","attitude","bad-attitude","be-in-the-shoes-of-others","criticism","easiest-things-in-life","empathy","hopes-and-dreams","judgemental-people","judging-actions","judging-by-appearance","judging-others","pessimism","ponder","psychology","reasons","reasons-why","unconstructive-criticism"],"id":59695,"author_id":"Ernest+Agyemang+Yeboah"},{"text":"And even if you do wear a maid outfit, it doesn't change the fact that you're strong or that you're smart or that you try really hard at everything you do. I think you'd still deserve to walk with your head held high.","author":"Hiro Fujiwara","tags":["inner-strength-of-a-woman","judging-by-appearance","strength"],"id":91178,"author_id":"Hiro+Fujiwara"},{"text":"We live our lives supposing things are as they appear to be when that is almost never the case.","author":"Richelle E. Goodrich","tags":["appearances","appearances-are-deceiving","assuming","assumptions","ignoring-issues","judging","judging-by-appearance","judging-people","living","making-assumptions","richelle","richelle-e-goodrich","richelle-goodrich"],"id":136074,"author_id":"Richelle+E.+Goodrich"},{"text":"A tin of milk is not the same as a milk tin. You are not always the same as others perceive you. The label of a tin of milk is not all that important as compared to the milk in the tin. So many people label others as if the ‘true milk’ in them is equal to the label. We must not always equate the outward man to the inner man. Guard your milk! The only way people can destroy your milk is their ability to punch a hole in ‘the tin’ and after they have done that, they can have reasons to speak about how ‘expired your milk is’. Dare to preserve your milk, no matter how people label you! Keep doing what you need to do as a living sacrifice to the Sovereign Lord God, and one day, they that label you wrongly shall come to a realization how they have their own labels. Stay focused! Move with the right reasons!Two people were asked to go and pick a tin of milk without first touching it. The first tin was well labeled, but without any liquid in it. The second was without a label, but with milk in it. When the two men got to where the tins were, one was quick to pick the one with the label, leaving the other for his friend. Then they came to him who sent them and he asked them, ‘I asked you to go for a tin of milk, where is it?’ the one who took the tin without the milk was quick to stretch his hand, but their sender said to him, ‘a tin of milk is not just a tin labeled a tin of milk, but a tin with milk’.","author":"Ernest Agyemang Yeboah","tags":["blackmailers","depression","how-others-see-you","judging-by-appearance","opinion-of-others","slandering"],"id":182503,"author_id":"Ernest+Agyemang+Yeboah"},{"text":"Two people pass each other. As one looks upon the other's skin color, the other is looking back at their appearance. Both justifying, how better and righteous they are, in their own insecurities.","author":"Anthony Liccione","tags":["afraid","better","fears","hate","insecurities","judging-by-appearance","judgmental","justifying","people","prejudice","problems","righteousness","skin-color","society","sterotypes"],"id":210448,"author_id":"Anthony+Liccione"},{"text":"As our fathers said, you can tell a ripe corn by its look.","author":"Chinua Achebe","tags":["character","judging-by-appearance","trustworthiness"],"id":242264,"author_id":"Chinua+Achebe"},{"text":"Before you look down upon the cripple, understand why you walk. Before you judge the dumb, understand why you talk. Before you judge the deaf, understand why you listen and hear. Before you judge the blind, understand why you look and see. Before you speak negative, understand why positive speech exists. Before you think negative, understand why positive thinking exists. Before you react negatively, understand why reacting positively exist. There exist positive and negative choices always. You have a choice. Good or bad, you choose!","author":"Ernest Agyemang Yeboah","tags":["appearance-and-attitude","attitude","choices-and-attitude","choices","deaf","judging-by-appearance","judging-others","look-to-yoursel-first","reasons-for-action","reasons-why","the-blind"],"id":276197,"author_id":"Ernest+Agyemang+Yeboah"},{"text":"It is only when people don’t know history well that they judge the present so blindly in ignorance!","author":"Ernest Agyemang Yeboah","tags":["history","judging-by-appearance","understanding-life"],"id":375637,"author_id":"Ernest+Agyemang+Yeboah"},{"text":"I'd developed an inability to demonstrate much negative emotion at all. It was another thing that made me seem like a dick - my stomach could be all oiled eels, and you would get nothing from my face and less from my words. It was a constant problem: too much control or no control at all.","author":"Gillian Flynn","tags":["anxiety","control","dick","emotional","emotions","heartless","judgemental","judging","judging-by-appearance","jumping-to-conclusions","mean","outer-appearance","panic","stoic","truth","what-s-inside-that-counts","words"],"id":431126,"author_id":"Gillian+Flynn"},{"text":"Eyes, so easily deceived, might judge more rightly with lids closed, allowing ears and heart to remain wide open.'from 'The Beauty of Ugh.","author":"Richelle E. Goodrich","tags":["ears","eyes","heart","judge","judging-by-appearance","judging-people","richelle","richelle-goodrich","the-beauty-of-ugh","ugh"],"id":467982,"author_id":"Richelle+E.+Goodrich"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":11,"pages":2,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}