{"quotes":[{"text":"You will never choose love greater than what you believe you deserve and what other insecure people tell your lack of self esteem to have faith in.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["anxiety","awareness","brainwashed","confidence","controlling-partner","empowering","false-angels","fear","gutter","have-confidence","jealous-women","jealousy","relationship-101","religious-guilt","rise-up","self-appreciation","self-confidence","self-esteen","self-gratitude","self-love","self-respect","women","worth"],"id":8787,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"A man worth being with is one…That never lies to youIs kind to people that have hurt himA person that respects another’s lifeThat has manners and shows people respectThat goes out of his way to help peopleThat feels every person, no matter how difficult, deserves compassionWho believes you are the most beautiful person he has ever metWho brags about your accomplishments with prideWho talks to you about anything and everything because no bad news will make him love you lessThat is a peacemakerThat will see you through illnessWho keeps his promisesWho doesn’t blame others, but finds the good in them That raises you up and motivates you to reach for the starsThat doesn’t need fame, money or anything materialistic to be happyThat is gentle and patient with childrenWho won’t let you lie to yourself; he tells you what you need to hear, in order to help you growWho lives what he says he believes inWho doesn’t hold a grudge or hold onto the past Who doesn’t ask his family members to deliberately hurt people that have hurt himWho will run with your dreamsThat makes you laugh at the world and yourselfWho forgives and is quick to apologizeWho doesn’t betray you by having inappropriate conversations with other womenWho doesn’t react when he is angry, decides when he is sad or keep promises he doesn’t plan to keepWho takes his children’s spiritual life very seriously and teaches by exampleWho never seeks revenge or would ever put another person downWho communicates to solve problemsWho doesn’t play games or passive aggressively ignores people to hurt themWho is real and doesn’t pretend to be something he is notWho has the power to free you from yourself through his positive outlookWho has a deep respect for women and treats them like a daughter of GodWho doesn’t have an ego or believes he is better than anyoneWho is labeled constantly by people as the nicest person they have ever metWho works hard to provide for the familyWho doesn’t feel the need to drink alcohol to have a good time, smoke or do drugsWho doesn't have to hang out a bar with his friends, but would rather spend his time with his familyWho is morally free from sinWho sees your potential to be greatWho doesn't think a woman's place has to be in the home; he supports your life mission, where ever that takes youWho is a gentlemanWho is honest and lives with integrityWho never discusses your private business with anyoneWho will protect his familyWho forgives, forgets, repairs and restoresWhen you find a man that possesses these traits then all the little things you don’t have in common don’t matter. This is the type of man worth being grateful for.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["be-selective","best-choice","best-friend","blessed","christ-like","dating","father","freedom","friendship","god-s-plan","grateful","gratitude","happiness","honorable-man","husband","jealous-women","jim-alder","joy","joyful","king-of-the-kingdom","life-partner","life-partners","lucky-girl","lucky-me","marriage","mate","my-husband","partner","positive-outlook","qualities","revelations","righteous-man","selection","spiritual-man","staying-positive","tests","the-best","the-man","winning"],"id":13851,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["angry-men","answers","behavior","clarification","closure","communication","confusion","crushes","family-members","gentlemen","good-life","husband","inconsistent-behavior","jealous-women","man","mixed-signals","nonsense","relationships","rumors","seeking-closure","siblings","sisters","spouse","stalkers","truth","wife","woman","women"],"id":17129,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"A coward talks to everyone but YOU.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["anxiety","cheats","competition","coward","defaming","evil-women","fake-christians","false-information","fear","games","gossips","heartless","insecure-women","jealous-women","jealousy","liars","low-self-esteem","paranoid-men","rumors","sisterinlaws","sisters","slander","stalkers","weak"],"id":26176,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["bizarreness","crazy","funny","gotta-laugh","humor","insecure-women","jealous-women","love","not-normal","stalking-women","the-great-equalizer","true","weird"],"id":84482,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"When someone is stalking you because they think you are stalking them, it makes you wonder who really is the true stalker?","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["angry-people","anxiety","denying-feelings","ego","fear","jealous-women","lies","love","male-ego","obsession","paranoia","stalked","stalking"],"id":124492,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Never annoy an inspirational author or you will become the poison in her pen and the villian in every one of her books.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["analogies","anger","angry-men","annoy","bitter-people","characters","conflict","cruel-people","drama","enemies","examples","fake-christians","fiction-characters","fights","friends","irritation","jealous-women","life-events","made-an-example","memories","plots","stalkers","stories","villians","writers","writing"],"id":135108,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many people don’t want you to have it. You have to find the courage to seize it, own it and hold on!","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["competition","confidence","courage","dont-give-up","enemies","future","haters","insecure-people","insecure-women","jealous-women","jealousy","lessons","move-forward","never-give-up","power","rights","self-esteem","strength"],"id":141424,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Gossip is the sound of jealously.","author":"Anton Rubaclini","tags":["gossips","inspirational","jealous","jealous-woman","jealous-women","jealousy","life-lessons","life-philosophy"],"id":149983,"author_id":"Anton+Rubaclini"},{"text":"Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their friends and family, compete with you, bad mouth you to others or react to anything you do or say is when they give themselves away. You can either be saddened or flattered that you effected someone so much. The perspective is yours to determine.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["anger","betrayal","cheaters","dishonorable-men","fake-christians","frustration","games","gossip","hidden-agendas","insecure-women","insecurity","jealous-women","liars","not-caring","obvious","slighted","stalkers"],"id":185909,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":22,"pages":3,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}