{"quotes":[{"text":"Never give a person a piece of your mind when all you really wanted to do was give them a piece of your heart.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["add","advice","anger","apology","arguments","breathe","chains","clarity","confused","drugged","fighting","forgiveness","frustration","heart","hidden-pain","hindsight","hurt","impulsiveness","lies","lost","love","not-caring","past","patience","peace","piece-of-your-mind","present","redemption","regrets","saddess","silence","sorrow","tears","truth","trying-to-be-right","wrong-choices"],"id":161851,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Human history is the ancient story of the umbilical conflict between a lone individual versus a cabalistic society. A love-hate relationship defines our personal history with society, where the suppression of individuality for the sake of the collective good battles the notion that the purpose of society is to enable each person to flourish. A conspicuous feature of cultural development involves societies teaching children the sublimation of unacceptable impulses or idealizations, consciously to transform their inappropriate instinctual impulses into socially acceptable actions or behavior. The paradox rest in the concept that in order for any person to flourish they must preserve the spiritual texture of themselves, a process that requires the individual to resist societal restraint, push off against the community, and reject the walls of traditionalism that seek to pen us in. The climatic defining event in a person’s life represents the liberation of the self from crippling conformism, staunchly rebuffing capitulating to the whimsy of the super ego of society.","author":"Kilroy J. Oldster","tags":["conforming","conformity-and-attitude","identity","impulse","impulse-control","impulsive","impulsiveness","impulsivity","independence","individual","individualism","individuality","instinct","instinctive","liberation","love-hate","love-hate","love-hate-relationship","personal-development","personal-growth","personal-liberty","personality","personality-development","personality","rejecting","self-acceptance","self-actualization","self-awareness","self-determination","self-determination","self-development","self-identity","self-realization","society","super-ego","traditionalism"],"id":172447,"author_id":"Kilroy+J.+Oldster"},{"text":"Before you make a decision, ask yourself this question: will you regret the results or rejoice in them?","author":"Rob Liano","tags":["choices","choices-and-consequences","desire","future-plans","happiness","impulsiveness","inspiration","life-decisions","regret","rejoice","responsivility","results"],"id":221671,"author_id":"Rob+Liano"},{"text":"It would be a sin to help you destroy yourself.","author":"Leo Tolstoy","tags":["impulsiveness","self-destructive-behavior","sin"],"id":245286,"author_id":"Leo+Tolstoy"},{"text":"Old age has a great sense of calm and freedom when the passions relax their hold, then, as Sophocles says, we are free from the grasp, not of one mad master only, but of many.","author":"Plato","tags":["emotions","impulsiveness","maturation"],"id":329657,"author_id":"Plato"},{"text":"Not every affection which seems good is to be immediately followed. Neither is every opposite affection to be immediately avoided. Sometimes it is expedient to use restraint even in good desires and wishes, lest through importunity you fall into distraction of mind, lest through want of discipline you become a stumbling block to others.","author":"Thomas à Kempis","tags":["discipline","impulsiveness"],"id":389026,"author_id":"Thomas+%C3%A0+Kempis"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":6,"pages":1}}