{"quotes":[{"text":"Even that exquisite hunger he aroused at her, fiercely sweet as it might be, posed a threat to her sanity.","author":"Lyn Ducoty","tags":["ignored","passion"],"id":824,"author_id":"Lyn+Ducoty"},{"text":"There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judge your soul. It is a fact that we all must face. However, if you realize that God is a best friend that stands beside you when others cast stones you will never be afraid, never feel worthless and never feel alone.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["blessed","blown-off","confidence","cruel-people","cruelty","faith","fear","god-s-love","gossiped-about","hang-on","hurt","ignored","insecurity","jealousy","judgement","let-go","low-self-esteem","mean-people","move-on","name-calling","rejected","rumors","self-esteem","self-worth"],"id":17026,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"The hardest part of letting go is the 'uncertainty'--when you are afraid that the moment you let go of someone you will hate yourself when you find out how close you were to winning their affection. Every time you give yourself hope you steal away a part of your time, happiness and future. However, once in a while you wake up to this realization and you have to hold on tightly to this truth because your heart will tear away the foundation of your logic, by making excuses for why this person doesn't try as much as you. The truth is this: Real love is simple. We are the ones that make it complicated. A part of disconnecting is recognizing the difference between being desired and being valued. When someone loves you they will never keep you waiting, give their attention and affection away to others, allow you to continue hurting, or ignore what you have gone through for them. On the other hand, a person that desires you can't see your pain, only what they can get from you with minimal effort in return. They let you risk everything, while they guard their heart and reap the benefits of your feelings. We make so many excuses for the people we fall in love with and they make up even more to remain one foot in the door. However, the truth is God didn't create you to be treated as an option or to be disrespected repeatedly. He wants you to close the door. If someone loves you and wants to be in your life no obstacle will keep them from you. Remember, you are royalty, not a beggar.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["dignity","divorce","failed-relationships","future","haters","having-faith","healing","health","hurt","ignored","letting-go","limbo","living","love","mental-health","one-sided","open-doors","pain","pause","queens","recharging","relationships-101","repairing","self-worth","spiritual-health","staying-positive","stuck","tired","true-love","trusting-god"],"id":18120,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Everyone gets forgotten because of Alzheimer's, ignored because of ignorance about oneself and replaced because of trying to stay in the same place.","author":"Amit Abraham","tags":["existence-of-man","forgotten","human-nature","humanity-and-society","ignored","ignored","replaced"],"id":22588,"author_id":"Amit+Abraham"},{"text":"Everyone gets forgotten because of Alzheimer's, ignored because of ignorance about oneself and replaced because of trying to stay in the same place.","author":"Amit Abraham","tags":["existence-of-man","forgotten","human-nature","humanity-and-society","ignored","ignored","replaced"],"id":22588,"author_id":"Amit+Abraham"},{"text":"A piece of art comes to life, when we can feel, it is breathing, when it talks to us and starts raising questions. It may dispel biased perceptions; make us recognize ignored fragments and remember forsaken episodes of our life story. Art may sometimes even be nasty and disturbing, if we don’t want to consent to its philosophy or concept, but it might, in the end, perhaps reconcile us with ourselves. ('When is Art?').","author":"Erik Pevernagie","tags":["art","biased","breathing","come-to-life","concept","consent-to","dispel","disturbing","feel","forsaken","fragments","ignored","in-the-end","nasty","perceptions","philosophy","piece-of-art","raise-questions","recognize","reconcile","remember","sometimes","start","talk-to"],"id":24141,"author_id":"Erik+Pevernagie"},{"text":"Oliver has stated many times his dislike of hearing advice from his younger sister, so it is his own fault if he has not got sense enough to see which way the wind is blowing.","author":"Patricia C. Wrede","tags":["advice","brothers","common-sense","funny","ignored","siblings","stupidity"],"id":40307,"author_id":"Patricia+C.+Wrede"},{"text":"Time doesn't heal all wounds, only distance can lessen the sting of them.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["battles","closure","fights","forgiveness","healing","hurt","ignored","lack-of-communication","living-with-pain","not-forgetting","not-knowing","not-letting-go","resentment","time","timing","unresolved-issues","waiting","wondering","wounds"],"id":73677,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"When someone you loved finds no flattery in the gift you gave them then you must ask yourself, 'What was worth loving?","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["abandoned","betrayed","devalued","dismissed","hated","hurt","ignored","judged","rejected","thrown-away"],"id":90920,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["accomplishments","anger","betrayed","bitterness","blindsighted","blown-off","broken-hearted","compassion","confidence","creativity","dignity","dumped","ego","erasing-the-past","false-confidence","false-worth","forgiveness","forgiving-others","freedom","games","giving","growth","hatred","hidden-agendas","hurt","ignored","inner-joy","inner-peace","live-free","low-self-esteem","move-on","new-beginnings","obvious","peace","pride","proud","proving-worth","real-value","rebel","repentance","restituition","revenge","seeking-approval","self-hatred","self-love","spiritual-growth","start-over","steps-of-repentance","stubborn","the-past","truth","truth-follower","value"],"id":115180,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":28,"pages":3,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}