{"quotes":[{"text":"Unhappiness comes from living the life of two people--the one people want you to be and the one you want to be.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["becoming-better","bravery","confidence","finding-joy","guilt-trips","healing","healing-the-emotional-self","joy","living-life-for-you","peer-pressure","unhappiness","unhappy","unity","your-life"],"id":21277,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Nobody knows what God's plan is for your life, but a whole lot of people will guess for you if you let them.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["advice","brainwashing","controllers","controlling-people","fear","fear-based-advice","god-s-plan","guessing","guilt-trips","ignorance","know-it-alls","opinions","plans","spectators","speculate","stupid-people"],"id":30431,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"There is nothing spiritual about a marriage that uses guilt, blame, shame or religious manipulations to keep a relationship together.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["blame","divorce","fear","guilt-trips","lack-of-courage","lied-to","loss-of-respect","loveless","manipulated","manipulations","marriage-problems","relationship-problems","self-serving","used"],"id":34020,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"I have tried to live my life with no regrets. Because regrets will become guilt in some cases, and guilt eats away at your sanity.","author":"James Hauenstein","tags":["guilt","guilt-free","guilt-trips","guilty-conscience","life","life-and-living","life-lesson","life-lessons","life-lessons","life-philosophy","life","living","living-life","living-life-to-the-fullest","no-regrets","philosophy","philosophy-of-life","philosophy","sanity"],"id":97224,"author_id":"James+Hauenstein"},{"text":"There are many types of marriage relationships and all of them can work, but none is sadder than the one that doesn't represent peace in your heart.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["arranged-marriages","arrangements","choices","constant-fights","couples","decisions","disconnection","divorce-101","divorce-care","feelings","friendship-only","guilt-trips","heart","love","marriage","marriage-counseling","marriage-relationships","overcoming","peace","relationships","restless","rollercoaster-rides","self-honesty","spouses","staying-for-kids","stayingpositiveuniversity-com","trials","undecided"],"id":232810,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Sometimes our wants or needs have nothing to do with being ungrateful and everything to do with making a mistake.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["choices","circumstances","crossroads","decisions","gratituide","guilt-trips","lack-of-faith","mistakes","thankful","truth","truthfulness","ungrateful"],"id":416351,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":6,"pages":1}}