{"quotes":[{"text":"We set our own limits on love. Some of us bind our hearts like Chinese women bind their feet. The binding is painful at first but eventually you get used to it and the pain goes away. The saddest part of all is that by binding yourself to the choices you make, you forget that there was ever another way to live.","author":"Kate McGahan","tags":["bind","chinese","choice","containment","fear","fear-of-love","feet","heart","love","pain","resistance","self-imposed-limits","self-limiting-beliefs"],"id":46254,"author_id":"Kate+McGahan"},{"text":"The ice inside me melts. Suddenly, I'm burning up and terrified, scared I'll be too weak to resist.Scratch that - I'm petrified I've already given in.","author":"Amanda Bouchet","tags":["amanda-bouchet","cat","fear-of-love","kingmaker-chronicles","relationships","trust"],"id":49600,"author_id":"Amanda+Bouchet"},{"text":"When you are in love you know no fear or hatred. When you are fearful there is no possibility of love or hatred. And when there is hate, there is only hate.","author":"Christopher Pike","tags":["fear","fear-of-love","hate","lack-of-courage","limiting-chances"],"id":189132,"author_id":"Christopher+Pike"},{"text":"All the things that people do in order to show that they don't need anybody... Meanwhile, all they really want to do is say, 'Please keep me.' We all want to be kept. The problem is we are too afraid to let anyone know about it. What are these fragile things in our hearts that have so much fear of being broken?","author":"C. JoyBell C.","tags":["being-vulnerable","courage","fear","fear-of-love","heartbreak","inspirational","love","relationships","the-fear-in-loving","vulnerability","wisdom"],"id":250178,"author_id":"C.+JoyBell+C."},{"text":"She looked at him for an age, and he read nothing short of love on her face. It warmed him to the core he'd thought dead, and scared the crap out of him.","author":"Dianna Hardy","tags":["fear-of-living","fear-of-love","love","love-hurts","second-chances","true-love","unconditional-love"],"id":277530,"author_id":"Dianna+Hardy"},{"text":"If the idea of loving those whom you have been taught to recognize as your enemies is too overwhelming, consider more deeply the observation that we are all much more alike than we are unalike.","author":"Aberjhani","tags":["agape-love","anti-racism","antiracism","belief-in-nonviolence","children-victims-of-war","civility","coexistence","compassion-heals-lives","compassion-love","compassion-wisdom","coping-with-change","courage-to-love","discourse-on-a-better-world","diversity","ending-terrorism","ending-war","enemy","faith-in-humanity","faith-in-love","fear-of-love","finding-strength-in-love","global-peace-movement","global-village","good-versus-evil","hate","hate-versus-love","higher-consciousness","hope-for-humanity","human-nature","human-rights-day","ideas","interfaith-dialogue","international-community","jihadism-and-love","jihadists-and-love","living-without-fear","love","love-and-jihad","making-a-difference","mindfulness","multiculturalism","multiculturalismo","national-history-day","nonviolent-conflict-resolution","peacism","philosophy-of-life","police-culture","police-reform","postered-poetics-by-aberjhani","of-the-day","for-the-new-year","race-relations","radical-grace","spiritual-philosophy","sustainbale-humanity","terrorism","trusting-love","unconditional-love","wisdom","xenophobia"],"id":297385,"author_id":"Aberjhani"},{"text":"Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they chose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them.","author":"bell hooks","tags":["fear","fear-of-love","feminism","feminist","intimacy","love","manhood","masculinity","men","motherhood"],"id":465754,"author_id":"bell+hooks"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":7,"pages":1}}