{"quotes":[{"text":"If you put the wrong foods in your body, you are contaminated and dirty and your stomach swells. Then the voice says, Why did you do that? Don't you know better? Ugly and wicked, you are disgusting to me.","author":"Bethany Pierce","tags":["anorexia","anorexic","bulimia","bulimic","depression","eating-disorder","eating-disorders","ed","mental-illness","ocd"],"id":2326,"author_id":"Bethany+Pierce"},{"text":"The only way to move forward is to focus on the good in your life and the good that you are doing for others and yourself. My past has shown me things in life, others and myself that I wouldn't wish upon anyone, but I can choose to pick up the pieces and build a beautiful life for myself and help others to do the same.","author":"Brittany Burgunder","tags":["beautiful-life","biography","brittany-burgunder","eating-disorder","eating-disorders","inspirational","life-lessons","memoir","motivational","recovery"],"id":16051,"author_id":"Brittany+Burgunder"},{"text":"We both knew what it was to hurt our bodies. It's a strange reason to bond with someone, but I think we both needed to feel understood, and, even though we couldn't love ourselves, we could love each other.","author":"Melissa C. Water","tags":["bulimia","cutting","eating-disorder","lady-injury","melissa-c-water","memoir","self-harm","self-injury"],"id":16791,"author_id":"Melissa+C.+Water"},{"text":"Fat bitch,' Kessa murmured as the door scraped closed behind Mrs. Stone.'She meant well, Francesca. And you see, everyone thinks you're too thin.'Since when is Mrs. Stone an authority on appearance. I've heard you say a thousand times that she looks like an old hooker.'I never said anything of the sort. What I said was that she wears too much makeup and her clothes are indiscreet.'Which means she looks like an old hooker. Well, if that's the way a woman is supposed to look, I'd rather be too skinny.' Kessa felt a flash of pleasure at the argument. Just let her mother try to push food into her now.","author":"Steven Levenkron","tags":["anorexia","argument","bitch","eating-disorder","fat","fight","hooker"],"id":17577,"author_id":"Steven+Levenkron"},{"text":"During the worst stages of my eating disorder, I was all-or-none with food—either bingeing or not eating. Much of my experience was, in fact, that if I ate anything, I would eat everything. I began to understand that this happened because I was starving myself. In starvation mode, my body literally thought I was facing a famine. It didn’t know that I was living near a grocery store and several fast-food restaurants. Thinking I was facing a real food shortage, its primal instinct was to binge on large amounts of food, conserving fat in preparation for the hard times ahead.","author":"Jenni Schaefer","tags":["eating-disorder","recovery"],"id":22026,"author_id":"Jenni+Schaefer"},{"text":"We take action when we have the honesty to admit that things are still broken, despite our best efforts otherwise. We take action when we hold ourselves continually open to new techniques, remaining resolutely receptive to new sources of support and new feeds of information. We take action when we are willing, in each new moment, to try again.","author":"Shannon Cutts","tags":["eating-disorder","recovery"],"id":22646,"author_id":"Shannon+Cutts"},{"text":"Dropping in and out of your own life (for psychotic breaks, or treatment in a hospital) isn’t like getting off a train at one stop and later getting back on at another. Even if you can get back on (and the odds are not in your favor), you’re lonely there. The people you boarded with originally are far, far ahead of you, and now you’re stuck playing catch-up.","author":"Elyn R. Saks","tags":["anxiety","depression","eating-disorder","life","mental-disorder","mental-illness","relationships","treatment"],"id":26582,"author_id":"Elyn+R.+Saks"},{"text":"It is not easy to find someone your size once the Freshman Fifteen turns to the Sophomore Forty or the Senior Sixty. Even when, through some miracle of self-restraint and bulimia, college girls managed to continue to have feminine bodies, so many of these tacky sluts have never heard word one about what fashion entails.","author":"Thomm Quackenbush","tags":["bulimia","college","eating-disorder","fashion","freshman","weight"],"id":44179,"author_id":"Thomm+Quackenbush"},{"text":"Anxiety becomes high energy when taken to the light. For me, it worked like this: I used to live in a constant state of anxiety, worrying about the past and the future. Now I do my best to focus my attention on the present moment. So the mental energy I used to waste on worrying is channeled into the present, making me better able to focus intently and enthusiastically on a task (whether work or play). In a similar way, perfection becomes tenacity, and compulsivity becomes drive. Traits that once brought us down can lift us up when taken to the light.","author":"Jenni Schaefer","tags":["anxiety","eating-disorder","recovery"],"id":47342,"author_id":"Jenni+Schaefer"},{"text":"Male domination, and the low and stigmatised status of women, cause teenage girls to engage in punishment of their bodies through eating disorders and self-mutilation. There is increasing evidence that woman-hating Western cultures are toxic to girls and very harmful to their mental health. It is, perhaps, not surprising, therefore, that there seem to be some girls baling out and seeking to upgrade their status.","author":"Sheila Jeffreys","tags":["eating-disorder","gender","radical-feminism","self-harm","self-mutilation","transgender"],"id":48840,"author_id":"Sheila+Jeffreys"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":70,"pages":7,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}