{"quotes":[{"text":"If you are looking for love under rocks or bringing home water moccasins, you might be confusing love and pain.","author":"David W. Earle","tags":["change","dysfunctional","dysfunctional-families","family","love","pain","recovery","relationships"],"id":15008,"author_id":"David+W.+Earle"},{"text":"Codependency is a learned set of behaviors, thought processes, and habits. When combined together, they fit a very loose definition. All people exhibit these traits to some degree, but some of us allow them to dictate our relationships with others and ourselves.","author":"David W. Earle","tags":["change","chaos","co-dependence","dysfuctional","dysfunctional-families","love","relationships","traits"],"id":15787,"author_id":"David+W.+Earle"},{"text":"No, I wanted to say, he didn't cut off her hands because he didn't have to, he had cut them off long before, with years of keeping all authority in his own palms, all the rules and all the power and all the answers emanating from him and no one else. And if you don't understand that, if you've never been in such a family, then you can't know the way the mind shackles itself and amputates its own limbs so adeptly that you never think to miss them, never think that you had anything so obscene as choice.","author":"Carolina De Robertis","tags":["control","dysfunctional-families"],"id":35325,"author_id":"Carolina+De+Robertis"},{"text":"What is that?” Addison inspects the food with a look of sheer revulsion on her face. You’d swear I just handed her a plate full of arsenic. “The Works Burger with fries and extra onions and cheese, exactly as you ordered.” I keep my voice level.She sends me a scathing look. “Do I look like I’d ever consume that amount of saturated fat?","author":"Siobhan Davis","tags":["angsty-love","bad-boys","contemporary-romance","dysfunctional-families","dysfunctional-relationships","humor","teen-drama","teen-romance","young-adult-romance"],"id":42646,"author_id":"Siobhan+Davis"},{"text":"If you should choose to look at those files, you will have to live with the consequences of your choices while, at the same time, being mindful that these choices will not only effect you, but will also infect, sorry, I intended to say effect, our entire family.","author":"Donna K. Childree","tags":["adoption","adoption-search","dysfunction","dysfunctional-families","family-relationships","mothers"],"id":53929,"author_id":"Donna+K.+Childree"},{"text":"Boundary violations are deeply experienced.","author":"David W. Earle","tags":["boundaries","chaos","dysfunctional-families","love","relationships"],"id":55104,"author_id":"David+W.+Earle"},{"text":"This imbalance causes resentments within the over-responsible and dependency with the irresponsible person and this dynamic becomes the destructive life-pattern not conducive to happy families.","author":"David W. Earle","tags":["codependency","dysfunctional-families","love","pain","recovery","relationships"],"id":56798,"author_id":"David+W.+Earle"},{"text":"Our parents were our first gods. If parents are loving, nurturing, and kind, this becomes the child’s definition of the creator. If parents were controlling, angry, and manipulative, then this becomes their definition.","author":"David W. Earle","tags":["change","chaos","dysfunctional","dysfunctional-families","families","gods","hurt","love","spiritual-growth","spiritual-wisdom","spirituality"],"id":66217,"author_id":"David+W.+Earle"},{"text":"You were tossed away like a pair of beautiful, brand new shoes that did not quite fit.","author":"Donna K. Childree","tags":["adopted-kids","adoption","dysfunctional-families","dysfunctional-family","mothers","the-wayward-gifted"],"id":88458,"author_id":"Donna+K.+Childree"},{"text":"Teenagers can spot hypocrisy a mile away and here I was telling them how to cope when they witnessed the shambles of my own life and how I was living.","author":"David W. Earle","tags":["change","chaos","dysfunction","dysfunctional-families","family","hypocrisy","love","recovery","teenagers"],"id":98596,"author_id":"David+W.+Earle"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":60,"pages":6,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}