{"quotes":[{"text":"Nina could scarcely believe a house could be as quiet as the one on Washington Street. Although there were moments when she missed her children, her main response to living apart from her husband was relief…[H]er current solitude was not just a respite, it was a time to contemplate her future options. Nina marveled that she had choices to consider.","author":"Jean Elson","tags":["adultery","charleston","courtroom-drama","divorce","divorce","divorces","extreme-cruelty","gross-misbehavior","infidelity","infidelity-in-marriage","infidelity-in-relationships","james-walker","legal","marriage","marriage","newport","nina-walker","progressive-era","rhode-island","wickedness","women-studies"],"id":21998,"author_id":"Jean+Elson"},{"text":"Most women would each be left with fewer dreams or without a dream, if the institution of marriage were to be abolished.","author":"Mokokoma Mokhonoana","tags":["abolish","abolishment","aphorism","aphorisms","aspiration","aspirations","aspire","boyfriend","boyfriends","couple","couples","divorce","divorced","divorcee","divorces","dream","dreamer","dreamers","dreams","girlfriend","girlfriends","goal","goals","humor","humour","institution","institutions","love","man","marriage","marriages","married","marry","men","quotation","quotations","quote","quotes","relationship-goal","relationship-goals","satire","vow","vows","wedding","wedding-vows","weddings","woman","women"],"id":49683,"author_id":"Mokokoma+Mokhonoana"},{"text":"Some people are each holding on to a lover of theirs who no longer loves them and/or who they no longer love, only because they do not want to have a reason or another reason to be jealous of the person who would eventually be their lover if they let go of them.","author":"Mokokoma Mokhonoana","tags":["adage","adages","africa","african","aphorism","aphorisms","axiom","axioms","boyfriend","boyfriends","breakup","breakups","date","dating","deep","dictum","dictums","divorce","divorces","envious","envy","epigram","epigrams","funny","girlfriend","girlfriends","give-up","gnome","gnomes","hate","hatred","hold-on","humor","humorous","humour","husband","husbands","insightful","jealous","jealousy","love","made-me-think","make-you-think","maxim","maxims","philosopher","profound","proverb","proverbs","provoke-thought","quotation","quotations","quote","of-the-day","quotes","reason","reasons","relationship","satire","satirical","saying","sayings","south-africa","south-african","thought-provoking","thoughtful","wife","wives"],"id":82763,"author_id":"Mokokoma+Mokhonoana"},{"text":"If they could not prove adultery or extreme cruelty, Nina's attorneys had an alternate strategy available. Rhode Island was unique in allowing divorce based upon other, more ambiguous grounds, as well...[as] an omnibus clause in the state's legal code authorized divorce based upon...'gross misbehavior and wickedness in either of the parties repugnant to and inconsistent with the marriage contract'...The relative vagueness of the terms 'gross misbehavior and wickedness' left room for interpretation by Rhode Island judges. Therefore, it was crucial NIna's attorneys prove she had legitimate standing to file for divorce in Rhode Island.","author":"Jean Elson","tags":["adultery","charleston","courtroom-drama","divorce","divorce","divorces","extreme-cruelty","gross-misbehavior","infidelity","infidelity-in-marriage","infidelity-in-relationships","james-walker","legal","marriage","marriage","newport","nina-walker","progressive-era","rhode-island","wickedness","women-studies"],"id":85699,"author_id":"Jean+Elson"},{"text":"As a hedge against possible failure to prove adultery, this alleged “that for a period of time from 1901 and continuing thereafter he [had] kept up and continued an undue, improper, indecorous and licentious association and intimacy with a woman, named Mabel Cochrane, many years his junior, and of questionable character and immoral habits.”[I] Furthermore, Nina accused James of “bestowing upon and receiving marked and improper attention” beginning in the fall of 1901, “indulging in undue and improper familiarity and intimacy” with Mabel Cochrane.","author":"Jean Elson","tags":["adultery","charleston","courtroom-drama","divorce","divorce","divorces","extreme-cruelty","gross-misbehavior","infidelity","infidelity-in-marriage","infidelity-in-relationships","james-walker","legal","marriage","marriage","newport","nina-walker","progressive-era","rhode-island","wickedness","women-studies"],"id":123518,"author_id":"Jean+Elson"},{"text":"Some women have kissed—and some are kissing—a lot of frogs, even though the very first man that they have each kissed was and is still a prince.","author":"Mokokoma Mokhonoana","tags":["aphorism","aphorisms","aphorist","aphorists","breakup","breakups","date","dating","divorce","divorces","fable","fables","fairy-tale","fairy-tales","fantasies","fantasy","fiction","frog","frogs","funny","hilarious","humor","humorous","humour","joke","jokes","king","kings","kiss","kiss-a-frog","kiss-a-lot-of-frogs","kisser","kissers","kissing","marriage","marriages","prince","princes","princess","princesses","queen","queens","quotations","quotes","relationship","relationships","romance","romantic","satire","woman","women"],"id":123890,"author_id":"Mokokoma+Mokhonoana"},{"text":"One of the reasons God did not make a lover for Himself when He made one for Adam is because He knew that fewer people would take Him seriously once He had an ex.","author":"Mokokoma Mokhonoana","tags":["adam","adam-and-eve","adam-and-steve","atheism","atheist","atheists","believer","believers","breakup","breakups","christian","christianity","courtship","date","dating","deities","deity","divorce","divorces","eve","god","gods","marriage","marriages","nonbeliever","nonbelievers","relationship","relationships","single","wedding","weddings"],"id":157922,"author_id":"Mokokoma+Mokhonoana"},{"text":"Leaving James was not something Nina had thought possible, but if she could do so and still keep her children, it might be better for them, as well as for her.","author":"Jean Elson","tags":["adultery","charleston","courtroom-drama","divorce","divorce","divorces","extreme-cruelty","gross-misbehavior","infidelity","infidelity-in-marriage","infidelity-in-relationships","james-walker","legal","marriage","marriage","newport","nina-walker","progressive-era","rhode-island","wickedness","women-studies"],"id":227158,"author_id":"Jean+Elson"},{"text":"Some people each left their spouse or lover because he or she was no longer the primary source of their happiness; some, because their spouse or lover was, at that time, the primary source of their unhappiness.","author":"Mokokoma Mokhonoana","tags":["breakup","breakups","dead","death","divorce","divorcee","divorcees","divorces","engagement","engagement-ring","engagement-rings","engagements","ex","exes","expectation","expectations","happiness","happy","husband","husbands","love","marriages","marry","proposal","proposals","propose","relationship","relationships","source","sources","spouse","spouses","unhappiness","unhappy","wedding","weddings","wife","wives"],"id":234823,"author_id":"Mokokoma+Mokhonoana"},{"text":"Marriage is a blast. Like a bomb.","author":"Julieanne O'Connor","tags":["divorce","divorce-humor","divorce","divorces","humorous","marriage","marriage-humor","marriage-life","marriages","relationship-advice","relationships","relationships"],"id":306436,"author_id":"Julieanne+O%27Connor"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":14,"pages":2,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}