{"quotes":[{"text":"There’s a Chinese word that means “soul sister,” and that is the word I would use to address you in my heart. Listen to me, soul sister: Fate or luck or destiny already put you through hell once. Please don’t make it worse by condemning yourself. There is no choice that would have left you feeling no guilt. Every time I watch Adam struggle to speak, every time I see another child laugh and point at him, every time I watch his face fall as he realizes he is not going to be treated like the other kids, I feel wrenched by guilt just as you did when you heard my story. Life is hard. We make the best choices we can. Condemnation, whether it comes from around you or inside you, only robs the world of another dram of compassion. God knows, we need all the compassion we can get. If you promise to try to forgive yourself, I’ll try to forgive myself as well. I think, in my heart of hearts, that there is nothing for either one of us to forgive.","author":"Martha Beck","tags":["choices","choices-and-consequences","compassion","condemnation","forgiveness","guilt","life","love","understanding"],"id":8767,"author_id":"Martha+Beck"},{"text":"If existence really does precede essence, there is no explaining things away by reference to a fixed and given human nature, In other words, there is no determinism, man is free, man is freedom. On the other hand, if God does not exist, we find no values or commands to turn to which legitimize our conduct. So, in the bright realm of values, we have no excuses behind us, no justification before us. We are alone with no excuses.This is the idea I shall try to convey when I say that man is condemned to be free. Condemned, because he did not create himself, yet in other respects is free; because once thrown into the world, he is responsible for everything he does.","author":"Jean-Paul Sartre","tags":["condemnation","existence","existentialism","freedom","god","humanism","life","purpose","responsibility","valuesmnation"],"id":16378,"author_id":"Jean-Paul+Sartre"},{"text":"To forgive another person means you have first condemned them. When we condemn others we condemn ourselves.","author":"Bryant McGill","tags":["condemnation","forgiveness","growth","wisdom"],"id":32907,"author_id":"Bryant+McGill"},{"text":"Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.","author":"Dale Carnegie","tags":["complaint","condemnation","criticism","fools","misattributed-ben-franklin"],"id":40806,"author_id":"Dale+Carnegie"},{"text":"Judging others is too often escapism dressed in the garb of righteous indignation, whereby I dutifully point out in others that which I probably should be pointing out in myself.","author":"Craig D. Lounsbrough","tags":["condemn","condemnation","critical","escapism","judge","judgement","judgmental","justice","self-assessment","self-examination"],"id":42674,"author_id":"Craig+D.+Lounsbrough"},{"text":"Whenever they are condemning weaves or breast implants, some people speak so passionately that their false teeth almost fall out.","author":"Mokokoma Mokhonoana","tags":["aphorism","aphorisms","aphorist","aphorists","appearance","appearances","argument","arguments","bazooms","berate","blame","blast","boob","boobs","bosom","bosoms","breast","breast-implants","breasts","castigate","censure","chastise","condemn","condemnation","cosmetic","cosmetic-surgeries","cosmetic-surgery","criticism","criticize","debate","debates","denounce","denture","dentures","denunciation","deprecation","disapprobation","disapproval","disapprove","disfavor","dislike","displeasure","dissatisfaction","distaste","false-teeth","find-fault-with","funny","hair","hilarious","hooters","humor","humorous","humour","hypocrisy","hypocrite","hypocrites","implant","implants","joke","jokes","knockers","lay-into","looks","natural-hair","objection","quotations","quotes","rebuke","reprimand","reprove","revile","satire","slam","surgeries","surgery","take-to-task","thumbs-down","weave","weaves"],"id":50678,"author_id":"Mokokoma+Mokhonoana"},{"text":"We earn the respect of our peers by laboring to quell our critics’ justified disapproval. We earn self-respectability by schooling the wisdom to ignore unfair condemnation. We learn goodness by witnessing other person’s lives and by performing unsolicited acts of kindnesses.","author":"Kilroy J. Oldster","tags":["condemnation","criticism","criticism-and-attitude","criticism","goodness","goodness","kindness","kindness","self-realization","self-respect","wisdom","wisdom"],"id":52144,"author_id":"Kilroy+J.+Oldster"},{"text":"God can allow you to pass through storms and get to your success. But what the devil loves to do is to make you not to realize it that the storm is over. He wishes to keep you in condemnation even at the time you have to feel liberated.","author":"Israelmore Ayivor","tags":["arcbishop","bishop","christ","condemn","condemnation","devil","endurance","endure","evil","feel","food-for-thought","garden-of-eden","god","israelmore-ayivor","jesus","jesus-christ","liberation","liberty","love","low-self-esteem","low-self-image","mind","pastor","perseverance","persevere","persist","persistence","redeem","redemption","reverend","salvation","satan","save","self-condemnation","self-unworthiness","sin","storm","storms","success","unworthiness","win"],"id":83668,"author_id":"Israelmore+Ayivor"},{"text":"If a man realizes who he is, he will not be envious of others or condemn them because he knows his own value, uniqueness and peculiar contribution.","author":"Sunday Adelaja","tags":["condemnation","envy","life","peculiar-contribution","purpose","self-realization","uniqueness"],"id":85679,"author_id":"Sunday+Adelaja"},{"text":"A mature heart for Christ would much rather spend its time praising him than condemning his fanatics.","author":"Criss Jami","tags":["acceptance","apologetics","christ","christian","christianity","condemnation","discernment","extremism","fanatics","followers","fundamentalism","god","grace","heart","immature","insult","jesus","jesus-freak","judgment","love","mature","mercy","peace","praise","religion","spiritual","worship"],"id":105106,"author_id":"Criss+Jami"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":46,"pages":5,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}