{"quotes":[{"text":"MY MOONI'll always wonder what time it is there; if you're dreaming, or awake. My moon is your sun; my darkness, your light. I'm in the future, you'd jokingly say.And I know where you are, because I'm watching you from the past.","author":"Coco J. Ginger","tags":["addiction","breakup","breakups","coco-j-ginger","codependency","codependent","forgetting-the-past","friendship","hard-to-get","heartbreak","heartbreaker","heartwarming","i-hate-you","i-love-him","i-love-you","letting-go","love","love-affair","love-and-romance","love-story","lovers","missing","moving-forward","moving-on","passion","passions","peter-pan","poet","unconditional-love","unrequited","unrequited-love","worthy","writer","writing"],"id":72249,"author_id":"Coco+J.+Ginger"},{"text":"It is very likely that men who are more gender role identified would never be seen as codependent because so many of their gender role traits are “normal” for an avoidantly attached codependent. Men with gender role conflict may pre-sent as more anxious, in general, and are more likely to be identified as codependent.","author":"Mary Crocker Cook","tags":["anxious","avoidant-attachment","codependent","gender-role","men"],"id":189045,"author_id":"Mary+Crocker+Cook"},{"text":"A WISHSometimes I wish that he will liveand I will see him.But mostly I wish that he will die, and take my memories with him.","author":"Coco J. Ginger","tags":["addiction","breakup","breakups","coco-j-ginger","codependency","codependent","friendship","heartbreak","heartbreaker","heartwarming","i-hate-you","i-love-him","i-love-you","love","love-affair","love-and-romance","love-story","lovers","missing","passion","passions","unconditional-love","worthy"],"id":306639,"author_id":"Coco+J.+Ginger"},{"text":"A POCKET-SIZED GIRLHe keeps me in his pocket for a rainy day; he swears I'm not an object as he yo-yo's me away.A friend is what we'll call it,but my friend, he does not know,each time it rains I love him— so to his pocket, I must go.He thinks he's being clever,but I am not a fool;his love ain't worth a penny,so to my heart I must be cruel.","author":"Coco J. Ginger","tags":["addiction","breakup","breakups","coco-j-ginger","codependency","codependent","forgetting-the-past","friendship","happiness","hard-to-get","heartbreak","heartbreaker","heartwarming","hope","i-hate-you","i-love-him","i-love-you","letting-go","love","love-affair","love-and-romance","love-story","lovers","missing","moving-forward","moving-on","passion","passions","peter-pan","player","poet","the-chase","unconditional-love","unrequited","unrequited-love","worthy","writer","writing"],"id":363721,"author_id":"Coco+J.+Ginger"},{"text":"Once they have been affected---once 'it' sets in---codependency takes on a life of its own. It is similar to catching pneumonia or picking up a destructive habit. Once you've got it, you've got it.If you want to get rid of it, YOU have to do something to make it go away. It doesn't matter whose fault it is. Your codependency becomes your problem; solving your problems is your responsibility.","author":"Melody Beattie","tags":["codependence","codependency","codependent","self-help"],"id":393123,"author_id":"Melody+Beattie"},{"text":"7amThey said that I’d forget you,and I knew it wasn’t true.But sometimes I wake up now,and my heart’s no longer blue.I press the Keurig button,dancing across the room—Sometimes it’s nearly seven,before I’ve thought of you.And though we sleep together,all night side by side,one day I’ll have my coffeewithout you in my mind.","author":"Coco J. Ginger","tags":["addiction","breakup","breakups","coco-j-ginger","codependency","codependent","coffee","friendship","heartbreak","heartbreaker","heartwarming","i-hate-you","i-love-him","i-love-you","inspirational","keurig","letting-go","love","love-affair","love-and-romance","love-story","lovers","missing","moving-on","passion","passions","unconditional-love","worthy"],"id":418979,"author_id":"Coco+J.+Ginger"},{"text":"I HOLDIf I could have had him,I could have let himgo.But withoutthe having there was nothing—so to the nothingIhold.","author":"Coco J. Ginger","tags":["addiction","breakup","breakups","coco-j-ginger","codependency","codependent","forgetting-the-past","friendship","hard-to-get","heartbreak","heartbreaker","heartwarming","i-hate-you","i-love-him","i-love-you","letting-go","love","love-affair","love-and-romance","love-story","lovers","missing","moving-forward","moving-on","passion","passions","peter-pan","unconditional-love","unrequited","unrequited-love","worthy"],"id":457997,"author_id":"Coco+J.+Ginger"},{"text":"WORTHYIf you ever decide to feel— feel this:I love you. I always have. I always will.Not because you're charming, beautiful or lovable.But because I choose you.Everyday I wake up and I choose you— again, and again, and again.But if you cannot feel, and if you never feel this, then know:I do not love you. I never have. I never will.Because you're not worth my love.(Come back my love, I am drowning.).","author":"Coco J. Ginger","tags":["addiction","breakup","breakups","coco-j-ginger","codependency","codependent","friendship","heartbreak","heartbreaker","heartwarming","i-hate-you","i-love-him","i-love-you","love","love-affair","love-and-romance","love-story","lovers","missing","passion","passions","unconditional-love","worthy"],"id":464076,"author_id":"Coco+J.+Ginger"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":8,"pages":1}}