{"quotes":[{"text":"Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["build-values","chasing","chastity","daughters-of-god","dignity","ego","empowering-women","gratitude","hell-to-well","insecurity","knowing-your-worth","lessons-learned","let-it-go","letting-go","life-lessons","living-authentically","morals","moving-on","other-woman","pride","pursuit","quality","quality-women","rise-up","self-compassion","self-confidence","self-love","self-worth","staying-positive","stayingpositiveu-com","temptress","to-be-human","wellness"],"id":4206,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Until that day at the dress department Lucie had been many things to me: a child, a source of comfort, a balm, an escape from myself; she was literally everything for me – but a woman. Our love in the physical sense of the word had proceeded no further than the kissing stage. And even the way she kissed was childish (I'd fallen in love with those kisses, long but chaste, with dry closed lips counting each other's fine striations as they touched in emotion).In short, until then I had felt tenderness for Lucie, but no sensual desire; I'd grown so accustomed to its absence that I wasn't even conscious of it; my relationship with Lucie seemed so beautiful that I could never have dreamed anything was missing. Everything fit so harmoniously together: Lucie, her monastically gray clothes, and my monastically chaste relation with her.","author":"Milan Kundera","tags":["celibacy","chastity","innocence","love"],"id":4782,"author_id":"Milan+Kundera"},{"text":"Failure to put the relationship on a slower timetable may result in an act that was never intended in the first place. Another important principle is to avoid the circumstances where compromise is likely. A girl who wants to preserve her virginity should not find herself in a house or dorm room alone with someone to whom she is attracted. Nor should she single-date with someone she has reason not to trust. A guy who wants to be moral should stay away from the girl he knows would go to bed with him. Remember the words of Solomon to his son, “Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house” (Proverbs 5:8). I know this advice sounds very narrow in a day when virginity is mocked and chastity is considered old-fashioned. But I don’t apologize for it. The Scriptures are eternal, and God’s standards of right and wrong do not change with the whims of culture. He will honor and help those who are trying to follow His commandments. In fact, the apostle Paul said, “He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear” (1Corinthians 10:13). Hold that promise and continue to use your head. You’ll be glad you did.","author":"James C. Dobson","tags":["1corinthians","act","advice","alone","and","apostle","are","attracted","avoid","away","be","bear","bed","beyond","can","change","chastity","circumstances","commandments","compromise","considered","continue","culture","day","did","do","door","eternal","failure","first","follow","girl","glad","go","god-s","guy","he","head","help","her","him","hold","honor","house","important","intended","is","keep","knows","let","likely","may","mocked","moral","narrow","near","never","not","old-fashioned","path","paul","place","preserve","principle","proberbs","promise","reason","relationship","remeber","result","right","scriptures","she","should","single-date","slower","solomon","someone","son","sounds","standards","stay","tempted","those","to","trust","trying","use","very","virginity","wants","what-you","whims","who","whom","will","with","words","would","wrong","you","you-ll","your"],"id":22652,"author_id":"James+C.+Dobson"},{"text":"You will not lift the veil of my body until you lift the veil over my face.","author":"Jason Evert","tags":["authenticity","catholic","chastity","christian","epic","inspirational","love","modesty","real-love"],"id":32925,"author_id":"Jason+Evert"},{"text":"... You must always remember... Whatever their bodies do affects their souls.","author":"C.S. Lewis","tags":["actions","chastity","drinking","drugs","health","smoking","word-of-wisdom"],"id":72345,"author_id":"C.S.+Lewis"},{"text":"Nothing was simple, certainly not simplification.","author":"Colum McCann","tags":["chastity","order","poverty","simple","simplification"],"id":138335,"author_id":"Colum+McCann"},{"text":"Chastity is not an attribute of body, but soul.","author":"Udai Yadla","tags":["chastity","love","soul"],"id":164844,"author_id":"Udai+Yadla"},{"text":"I’ve always found the idea of 'saving' your virginity intriguing: it’s not as if we’re packing our Saran-wrapped hymens away in the freezer, after all, or pasting them in scrapbooks. But packed-away virginities aside, the interesting — and dangerous — idea at play here is that of 'morality.” When young women are taught about morality, there’s not often talk of compassion, kindness, courage, or integrity. There is, however, a lot of talk about hymens (though the preferred words are undoubtedly more refined — think 'virginity' and 'chastity'): if we have them, when we’ll lose them, and under what circumstances we’ll be rid of them.","author":"Jessica Valenti","tags":["chastity","feminism","gender-equality","purity-myth","virginity"],"id":182832,"author_id":"Jessica+Valenti"},{"text":"To love at a distance and without hope; never to possess; to dream chastely of pale charms and impossible kisses extinguished on the waxen brow of death: ah, that is something like it. A delicious straying away from the world, and never the return. As only the unreal is not ignoble and empty, existence must be admitted to be abominable. Yes, imagination is the only good thing which heaven vouchsafes to the skeptic and pessimist, alarmed by the eternal abjectness of life.","author":"Joris-Karl Huysmans","tags":["abject","abjectness","abominable","charms","chaste","chastity","death","distance","dream","empty","emptyness","eternal","existence","heaven","hope","hopelessness","ignoble","imagination","kiss","kisses","life","love","pale","pessimism","pessimist","possess","skeptic","skepticism","unreal","world"],"id":185850,"author_id":"Joris-Karl+Huysmans"},{"text":"So dear to heaven is saintly chastity, That when a soul is found sincerely so, A thousand liveried angels lackey her, Driving far off each thing of sin and guilt, And in clear dream, and solemn vision Tell her of things that no gross ear can hear, Till oft converse with heavenly habitants Begin to cast a beam on the outward shape, The unpolluted temple of the mind, And turns it by degrees to the soul's essence, Till all be made immortal.","author":"John Milton","tags":["angels","chastity","comus","immortal","virtue"],"id":200104,"author_id":"John+Milton"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":22,"pages":3,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}