{"quotes":[{"text":"Most people are about as happy as their self confidence will allow them to be.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["anxiety","balance","bickering","change-perspective","competition","decreased-dopamine","fear","fights","finding-joy","finding-peace","freedom","happiness","inner-peace","jealousy","joy","lack-of-confidence","lack-of-contentment","low-self-esteem","need-to-be-right","self-defeating-attitude","serotonin","stimulus-seeking"],"id":3116,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Nostalgia has a way of blocking the reality of the past.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["annoying-habits","attachment","bad-relationships","betrayal","bickering","boredom","boyfriend","cheating","competition","day-dreams","death","denial","desires","disappointments","divorce","drama","drama-seeking","dreams","ego","failures","false-memories","family","fantasy","fights","flirtation","funerals","girlfriend","how-it-was","incompatability","insecurity","jealousy","lies","marriage","marriage-difficulties","memories","memory-loss","nostalgia","obsession","personality","pictures","pride","real-life","sentimental","silence","stimulus-seeking","the-past","treachery","vacations"],"id":11803,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"These days when Christians bicker they exaggerate passion into a legalistic belief and prosperity into a lukewarm belief.","author":"Criss Jami","tags":["apologetics","arguing","argumentation","belief","bickering","christian","christianity","conflict","criticism","debating","denominations","disagreement","exaggeration","gospel","hypocrisy","judgment","legalism","lukewarm","opposition","passion","prosperity","religion","spirituality"],"id":19153,"author_id":"Criss+Jami"},{"text":"The most beautiful women in the world are the ones that can stand as rivals on the battlefield of love, yet they can still see each other’s pain. They can set down their swords for only just a moment to acknowledge the beauty of the warrior that stands before them—the passion, the fearlessness and the relentless fire that never gives up. It is in this moment that we learn that it is not the man that sees the worth of the hearts torn by battle in his honor; it is the women who have suffered for so long. Two women that can “see” clearly the worth of the other, even while they grow weary from their wounds is the only kind of beauty that matters. For if there wasn’t two worthy opponents there would be no war in love.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["bickering","fighting","heart-break","hurt","love","love-one-another","love-your-enemies","perspective","respect","revivals","scars","sillyness","sportmanship","the-big-picture","tired","war","women","wounds","years","you-are-beautiful","your-are-smart"],"id":52658,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Care to explain?” Ari asked.“Didn’t you see my signals?”“Yeah. But they didn’t make sense. Five into one and it’s an intrusion.”“It’s an illusion! Five of them are an illusion.”“That’s not the signal for illusion. This is.” Ari demonstrated the proper signal.“That’s what I did.”“No, you didn’t. You did a weird twisty thing with your pinky.”“I had a scimitar at my throat. I’d like to see you try signaling under those conditions.”-Janco and Ari bickering.","author":"Maria V. Snyder","tags":["argument","bickering","funny","funny-and-random","funny-humor","funny"],"id":153630,"author_id":"Maria+V.+Snyder"},{"text":"Trusting me,” Teren murmurs, “is a dangerous game, mi Adelinetta.”“I’m doing more than that,” I reply. “For the rest of this journey, you will be my personal guard.”At that, Teren’s eyes flare with surprise and anger. “I’m not your lackey, Your Majesty.”“And I’m not Giulietta,” I fire back.","author":"Marie Lu","tags":["adelina-amouteru","bickering","teren-santoro","trust"],"id":172357,"author_id":"Marie+Lu"},{"text":"You can't fight hatred with hatred and expect anyone to listen to you. You can only try to lessen it with humor, wit, truth and commonsense. If that doesn't work run like hell, while they throw rocks at you.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["angry-people","arguments","bickering","brothers","bullies","causes","comedy","commonsense","crazy-people","disputes","family","friends","humor","mass-delusion","mobs","nonsense","relationships","ridiculous","riots","siblings","sillyness","sisters","stupidity","truth","tsloama","wit"],"id":191523,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Republicans know well that a change of rhetorical pace is necessary. But efforts by their leaders to damp down the bellicosity of newly elected Tea Party types is running into the fact that the Tea Partiers have only the high volume setting on their amplifiers, just like Palin. They're like a couple having a fight at a funeral; politely sotto voce, then suddenly bursting out fortissimo with their plaints and accusations.","author":"Alexander Cockburn","tags":["2011","2011-tuscon-shooting","bickering","funerals","politics","republican-party-united-states","rhetoric","sarah-palin","tea-party-movement","united-states"],"id":223428,"author_id":"Alexander+Cockburn"},{"text":"Often a woman that doesn’t have any business being in a fight is there because their ego thinks it can mend what other people can’t. It’s either superiority or a second chance to heal a wound they have, by meddling on your battlefield.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["bickering","cruelty","ego","fake-christians","fights","hateful","hurt","hurting-me","insecure-women","jealous-women","manipulation","mean-women","needs-to-be-right","not-communicating","playing-games","purposeful","sisters","stalkers","stalking","stalking-me","superiority","witch-hunting"],"id":232979,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"},{"text":"Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.","author":"Shannon L. Alder","tags":["bickering","divorce","evolution","growing","growth","husband","love","marriage","overcoming","process","relationships","relationships-101","spiritual-growth","spouse","teamwork","wedding","wife"],"id":246289,"author_id":"Shannon+L.+Alder"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":19,"pages":2,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}