{"text":"I realized that unforgiveness was a spiritual and emotional poison and that it hurt me more than it hurt anybody else! Instead of living a toxic life and continue to destroy myself and my family, I began to practice Philippians 4: 8 on purpose: Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.","author":"Shelley Lubben","tags":["that-defines-my-life","to-live-by","wise","words-of-wisdom"],"id":4300,"author_id":"Shelley+Lubben"}