{"text":"No one can control their results. We can, however, control our attitude. When we practise compassion, it is most effective when it is unconditional and free from seeking an outcome – compassion is a matter of choice rather than a self-seeking action. And so, if we assist another human being from a place of presence and compassion, we are not looking to find our happiness off the back of others’ suffering. Nor are we trying to control them. Compassion is a conscious choice rather than an emotional knee-jerk reaction.","author":"Christopher Dines","tags":["addiction","addiction-and-recovery","addictive-behaviour","addictiveness","compassion","mindfulness","non-attachment","presence"],"id":161553,"author_id":"Christopher+Dines"}