{"author":"Suzanne Finnamore","author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore","total_quotes":72,"quotes":[{"text":"Irrationally, I think, Will You Marry Me? Four words. I Want a Divorce. Four words. I would like time to count the letters as well, but there is not time.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["cheating","divorce","infidelity","marriage","seperation"],"id":1944,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"I know my vision is impaired and cannot be trusted with even the simplest tasks, much less dating. Not that I´ve come within talon distance of a man.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["breaking-up","cheating","deception","divorce","infidelity","marriage","relationships"],"id":6609,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"I think: I would like to take N back to a story right now, like a rake.  I would say, 'Oh, this rake is uneven. Do you have any where the tines go straight across?' I would like to do a straight exchange. But there are things that cannot be returned. Errant husbands are one of them. Wives are not. Wives can be exchanged; I have always known this.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["cheating","divorce","husband","infidelity","marriage","seperation"],"id":32441,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"I used to loathe ambivalence now I adore it. Ambivalence is my new best friend. ","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["breaking-up","cheating","deception","divorce","infidelity","marriage","relationships"],"id":48388,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"It had all seemed as inevitable as sunset. Instead it was the beauty of the sun glinting upon the scythe.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["cheating","divorce","infidelity","marriage","relationships","seperation"],"id":52947,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"The whole world seems tilted, my inner ear displaced by a hole where my spouse used to be.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["cheating","divorce","husband","infidelity","marriage","seperation","spouses"],"id":54727,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"I remember one desolate Sunday night, wondering: Is this how I´m going to spend the rest of my life? Marrid to someone who is perpetually distracted and somewhat wistful, as though a marvelous party is going on in the next room, which but for me he could be attending?","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["breaking-up","cheating","deception","divorce","infidelity","marriage","relationships"],"id":55524,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"Although I notice there is never a truly good time to have a nice long chat with one´s mother-in-law, unless you are having an extraordinary life and marriage and your mother-in-law is, say, Maureen Dowd, or Indira Gandhi. Someone of that ilk.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["breaking-up","cheating","deception","divorce","infidelity","marriage","relationships"],"id":58562,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"People told me not to get married; I didn´t listen. No one ever listens, it seems to me now. Perhaps people should stop trying to communicate. N was not a communicator; early on, I´d insisted on communication. Now I see his point acutely. I would love to have him back to not communicate with me. I would never ask for communication again, I would simply go elsewhere for the deep fish. Also, I´m not at all sure I want to hear what he has to say in this new vista. This works out well.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["cheating","divorce","husband","infidelity","marriage","seperation"],"id":63520,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"},{"text":"Delusion detests focus and romance provides the veil.","author":"Suzanne Finnamore","tags":["cheating","delusion","divorce","infidelity","marriage","relationships","romance","seperation"],"id":72236,"author_id":"Suzanne+Finnamore"}],"pagination":{"page":1,"page_size":10,"total":72,"pages":8,"next":"?page=2\u0026page_size=10"}}